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Christian: Each one of us who posts on this blog is a Christ follower. We all believe that God came down from heaven and was born of the virgin Mary…his name was Jesus; he walked this Earth performing signs and miracles, but mostly trying to get man to see the love that God had for him. He was crucified, died and buried. On the third day he rose again, ascending into Heaven, where He rules at the right hand of God the Father as part of the three-part trinity. We believe that his death and resurrection are God’s free gift, our Salvation, which we can never possibly earn except by believing that Christ died for our sins. We believe that His return is imminent, can happen at any moment and we anxiously await the day we are reunited with our Savior in Heaven.
Nymphos: The definition, according to dictionary.com is as follows:
WordNet – nymphomaniac
Adjective
1. (used of women) affected with excessive sexual desire
Noun
1. a woman with abnormal sexual desires
We are women with excessive sexual desire for our husbands! There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. In fact, God wants us to be madly in love with our husbands. He wants us to keep that fire burning in our marriage beds! We have the Song of Solomon as a perfect example of a Christ honored union where the two people are obviously intoxicated with each other. If you pause and wonder at the thought of Christ having an influence on a book of the Bible that was written before he lived on the earth, one thing to understand about the power of Christ is that His authority over the Word of God covers the entire Scripture because He IS the Word.
As far as the second definition goes, we each do have some good friends who have called us abnormal because of how happy we are in our marriage beds. Their attitude is that a wife should just put up with sex once a month or so to keep the husband happy. So for them to hear us praising our husbands and talking about how much we enjoy being with him, they do think we are “against the norm” so to speak. The secular world would probably find us abnormal as well. I mean think about it. We have all of these sexual desires and cravings and yet, we’re only focusing these thoughts on our husbands. We left our mothers and fathers and now are cleaving unto our husbands as God commanded. Our thoughts and urges are directed towards them. So for the people “of the modern, secular, world,” I’m sure they find us abnormal.
The word Nympho has a negative connotation for some. It doesn’t have to stay this way. Why can’t we take something “of the world” and make it into something good? We are here to follow what Paul wrote in Titus:
Titus 2
3 Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. 4Then they can train the younger women to love their husbands and children, 5to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God.
We are here to say to women everywhere:
“Be fully released to embrace all that God wants for your marriage! Ignite that intimacy with your husband, and grow in Christ together! Witness to others about Jesus, and at the same time, let them see you as a healthy, strong, happily married woman. Be a role model to other young women who need someone to look up to and talk to. Instruct them on marriage and don’t shy away from sexual questions they have. Young women need experienced women to talk to and get sound, Christian advice from. Let us honor God by showing these women what He wants for them in marriage!”
That is why we started this website. To minister and fellowship with other married women. Our site was created with a target audience of married women ages 18 – 99. If you are a married, or soon to be married woman, then we encourage you to browse through our categories and make yourself at home here.
Just know that we speak from the heart. We write honestly and in some cases, bluntly. We are not embarrassed or ashamed to talk about what the Lord has done in our lives, including our marriage beds. We hope you bookmark us and come back to see us regularly!
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1. The home page is an explanation of who we are and why we are here. 2. In the left side bar you will find: a. A search box b. The total number of hits c. Our Pagesd. Our 6 most recent articles
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Finally! Women like me. Love God; Love their husbands. AMEN!
Dear CN website girls!!
Thank you,thank you, thank you! I have been married for 18 yrs and your website has really opened my eyes. My husband and I had a good sex life but I knew if I somehow let go of my sexual hangups it would be wow!! I was afaid to love sex and to be really open with my husband until I found your website. My husband was blown away (no pun intended) when I gave him the best oral sex of his life from reading your tips. He couldn’t stop talking about it and said it made him feel like he could do anything. He even brought me flowers the next day. As a christian wife I know that God wants me to enjoy sex and please my husband. Thank you again!!! I am now free and I thank God for it. Michelle
I love it! So glad to find this site. I thought I was the only one who desired sex with my husband all the time!
this is a really great site and i’ve only read the first page! my husband actually found it a couple of weeks ago and got me interested.! it’s really great to see how many christian women with the same beliefs i do, wanting and experiencing the same sort of sexual desire and satisfaction i think should be present in every christian marriage. it’s great to find a christian site that will deal with things so openly and bluntly without having to read some sleazy magazine. i look forward to becoming a regular part of the CN group
i completely support the mission of spicing up christian marriages and can’t wait to see what come up next! *wink*wink*
I wanted to say how wonderful this site is. I’ve printed off articles for my wife, and she’s really enjoyed them.
I’m a 31-one-year-old man who has been married to a wonderful woman for 5 years.
I think a lot of men would love to have Christian nymphos as wives, but they can’t be made to. As you’ve written in several places, it’s about choices.
I think it’s also about communication. Since reading this site and Red Hot Monogamy and Sheet Music with my wife, it has helped immensely in our communication, and learning about how men and women tick. I’ve learned that my wife likes to be cared for, and I’ve communicated how important being sexually fulfilled is to me. The books are right – for men, sex can happen almost anytime, and it feels like a need. And that afterwards, a man is happier, likes his job more (or hates it less!) and everything about life seems brighter.
I learned that when our son was a newborn and I had just started a new job, my wife felt uncared for because I was working very hard and leaving too much of the “baby stuff” to her. I’ve corrected my behaviour. And she’s learned that for me, sex doesn’t have to be full-blown candlelight and foreplay and intercourse every time, which is what she thought. Her initiating sex makes me feel cared for and loved and desirable.
It’s amazing how much communication can do for your relationship. It can be hard work, but it makes such a difference.
I like the comments here and on TMB about men trying not to ask too much for sex, and women trying not to say no. No can be devastating to hear.
Of course, we’re working on all this – and taking the Farrels’ advice and setting a sex schedule – while my wife is nearing the beginning of her third trimester with our second child. So hormones and tiredness (and our 3-year-old) are all factors. But I make sure to give my wife plenty of care and massages, keep the house clean, and give her alone time without our son. She sticks to our schedule, and even goes beyond it sometimes. This month we’re going to start going on date nights.
Thanks so much, ladies, for this site, and for being so positive and encouraging women to ignite intimacy with their husbands.
I can tell you the husbands appreciate it, and that the married couples grow closer to each other and to God because of it.
Hi Ladies
Thanks for all your comments and advise – it has really set about a righteous sexual revolution in my marriage! (Cape Town, S. Africa)
Hey guys I love the website…I am SO GLAD I found this. I really enjoy sex with DH and we work at manintaining great communication and sex. My DH is an travels alot (corporate pilot) and a freind from church that I play tennis with asked “are you ever afraid he will cheat while traveling?” I told her and absolute NO. She asked why and I explained that we email and talk daily….plus sex happens before he goes and when he gets home. She made this “AGRRRHHH” sound and roled her eyes and said ” I can’t belive you do that, how can you stand having sex that much?” and she went into a huge rant about it being a chore and she trys to avoid advances at much as possible. I’m sure she loves her hubby….however I feel sorry for them….
Sorry to be so long….love the site and thanks for the good work. God Bless.
Shell
Well, it’s about TIME!! I’ve been saying for the longest that the church needs to stop acting like sex within marriage is boring! To stop frontin’ like they don’t secretly want to get their groove on! I’m a firm believer that missionary-style isn’t the ONLY position out there. I’m about to get married to the man of God and I intend to rock that man ’til he yells TITHE on our wedding night!!! Halleujah for your blog and keep doing what you’re doing.
Miss Dee
Hi. I just have some quick questions about your site. As a feminist woman I fully support your right to be open and aggressive sexual individuals. The freedom to express a woman’s desire has been a fight throughout the ages. Much of history is littered with stories about women who were punished for being overtly sexual, most of the time within the confines of marriage. I’m wondering however if you are as open in your ideas about social politics as you are about reverse cowgirl and anal play with your husbands. Could someone be a Christian nympho if they are in a commited relationship with someone of the same sex? Would their stories and ideas be welcome here? I’ve been married to my husband for almost a year, but we were sexually active before we got married as well. Is that behavior also frowned on?
I guess, I’m ultimately wondering if you are as liberated outside of your bedrooms as you are in them.
Peace.
Julie
Hi Julie! Thanks for your question. If you read a great portion of our blog you are going to get a really good picture of what we believe regarding the specifics of same sex relationships and premarital sex, but essentially we believe that men and women are going to find the most freedom by following what the Lord has established as right for sexuality. Our understanding is that the healthiest situation for intimacy is one man and one woman in marriage. We view ourselves as being very liberated both inside and outside the bedroom, but I suspect that you and we view liberation as two very different things.
Hi girls, I am a man (from Brazil) and enjoy reading your site together with my wife. I work with counseling couples, in fact sometimes I do seminars on sex for Christian couples and the last one I did, I used some of your examples. Passed the site on to everyone in the room.
So, thanks for taking the time to do this and for keeping the Lord’s command at the same time. We can have amazing sex life and as well love the Lord. Marriage is amazing when 2 people are completely focused on each other the way God intended it to be.
Again, from Brazil, thanks.
Found the site this weekend, we are very gratefull this exists.
I’m glad that I found this website. Now I can spice up my sex life with my husband without having to resort to pornography on the internet. It’s nice to know that as a woman I can enjoy sex and learn about different ways to experiment without feeling guilty about it.
wow. i am glad i found this site! some topics you just cannot bring up at your woman’s bible study class.. you know?
How comforting to know there are others with the same questions and desires for a more interesting sex life out there in the Christian community!
This willl be bookmarked in my favorites section from now on.
thank you
Hello everyone, I am new to your site and must say that I am in awe over what I’m reading here. Congratulations on really breaking the “rules” and giving women a chance to really explore and discuss our sexuality in a repectful manner.
I am the daughter of a Pastor so was raised in church in a pretty traditional enviroment. Althought my mom took the time to have serious conversations about sex with me and my siblings, perhaps the emphasis was too much on the “serious” part.
I grew up and became extremely uptight about my sexuality, with serious commitment issues as well as fear of intimacy.
During the last 5 years, I ‘ve denied my husband sex on a regular basis for many reasons. I am very ashamed of myself and it’s quite diffiicult to openly say this. Life got complicated and we grew up more and more apart.
I started to pray and ask God to help me deal with my issues. I decided to start doing some things for myself. Began to excercise, eat well and enjoy the little things in life once again.
Then a second miracle happened: My sexual awakening came somehow like a wave, and it really shook my world !!!! I felt like a new woman. I’ve never experience the type of sexual awareness that I’been feeling these last couple of months!! Really amazing.
After so many years of being sexually inacitve, my libido was very low. But little it started cominb back and I started feeling better and more confident about my body. My husband and I started to “date”, going to the movies, having dinner, listening to music, but without any physical contact. We needed this time because we felf too emotionally disconnected.
As you can imagine, my husband would not take the first step, I had rejected him too many times before, so I knew that it was up to me to reactivate our sexual life.
At the same time, I was frozen with fear that he would reject me…
About 3 week ago, I gathered enough courage to show him how much I wanted him. We were watching a tv show and after I heard a joke and laugh he said something that somehow turn me on and that was the trigger for me, I kissed him and he kissed me back. After that I started massaging his back ( I know he goes crazy with this!!!). We ended up giving each other massages and had the most amazing sex ever.
I am asking God that he will continue helping us in our relationship and especially that I can overcome my problems. I also thank Him for giving me a husband that stayed with me even though I had practically abandoned him.
I found your website a few days ago and it’s been extremely informative and helpful. It’s still kind of shocking for me to find women, especially Christian women talking so openly about their sexual lives. But it’s feels so good to hear that you are not alone in your experiences and feelings….
My husband and I have been spending lots of time in bed having amazing sex, but also talking to each other and working on healing our wounds. In the meantime, I can tell you that weI can’t stop smiling….
Thx once again for this amazing ministry!!!
Many Blessing!!!!
I just found this site and let me say it is awesome. I have just recently, after 20 years of marriage, been able to open up and try new and exciting things with my husband. This came after a heartfelt prayer and God answered. Thank you guys so much!! It’s nice to know there are other women out there who have strong and healthy desires for their husbands like I do. I can’t wait to share this with a couple of my friends.
Hi there,
I found your site this am, while googling the meaning of the word ‘nympho’. I am a 30 year old married woman, who just love sex, anytime any place with my husband. He loves that also. We are both christians who did not experience sex before marraige. We learned from books, porn and hearing other peoples stories. This site is a wonderful one. I think that when the woman is more open to sex, it flows better with the man, because they would be pretty much be up to the game!! Keep it up!!!