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The mission of Christian Nymphos is to teach married women to walk in sexual freedom with their husbands, so they will be able to reach out and help free the women in their lives.
The Christian Nympho Name
We recognize that nymphomania is a legitimate illness for some women and we don’t mean to minimize that in any way. We started referring to ourselves as nymphos long before we started our blog. We saw ourselves as incredibly passionate wives and found wonderful freedom in embracing our sexuality. The definition of a nympho is “a woman with abnormal sexual desires.” Sometimes we do feel abnormal, and while sometimes it is with people who are not Christians it can also be when we are in groups of Christian women. Moms groups. Ladies Bible studies. A night out with our Christian girlfriends. It is not uncommon to hear women speaking negatively about sex. It is also not at all uncommon for us to hear people telling us that our sexual standards are rigid and uptight because we are so firm in our conviction that sex as God intended it is most intensely fulfilled within the marriage covenant.
While our name includes the term “nympho,” we also first and foremost refer to ourselves as Christians. The core of our identity is that we belong to God and have a connection to Him because of our faith in the saving power of the work of Jesus Christ on the cross. This allows us to submit all of our sexual desires to his authority so that our expressions of passion with our husbands are healthy and appropriate.
The word Nympho has a negative connotation for some. It doesn’t have to stay this way. Why can’t we take something “of the world” and make it into something good?
We are here to say to women everywhere:
“Be fully released to embrace all that God wants for your marriage! Ignite that intimacy with your husband, and grow in Christ together! Witness to others about Jesus, and at the same time, let them see you as a healthy, strong, happily married woman. Be a role model to other young women who need someone to look up to and talk to. Instruct them on marriage and don’t shy away from sexual questions they have. Young women need experienced women to talk to and get sound, Christian advice from. Let us honor God by showing these women what He wants for them in marriage!”
Please feel free to use the category listings, FAQ page and search box to find information on a variety of topics. If you can not find what you are looking for in those sections, then feel free to contact us through our Got Questions? page.
We welcome all married women to enter our community at the Christian Nympho blog and interact with the articles. Just know that we speak from the heart. We write honestly and in some cases, bluntly. We are not embarrassed or ashamed to talk about what the Lord has done in our lives, including our marriage beds. We hope you bookmark us and come back to see us regularly!
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I don’t believe in God, and I am sometimes annoyed by Christian ideas, which can be arrogant and dogmatic (as in “all moral behaviour has to be based on the bible”) or at odds with common sense (“even though studies show that sex education helps reduce teenage pregnancies and STDs, let’s try to prevent people from distributing information in schools anyway”).
I am happy to see that this does not always have to be so! Although I’m sure I disagree on many things with the people who run this site, your treatment of sex is a breath of Christian fresh air. Good job nymphos!
HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE!!! And a beautiful new homepage CN ladies.
That picture surely speaks at least a 1,000 words of your mission here @ CN.
Steve: I’m curious as to what attracted you to this site? And thanks for your comments. These ladies here are the cutting edge of a new generation of Christ followers. I am excited about my sons generation and their ability to bring a fresh approach to those whom we are to reach out and minister to despite our uncomfortability with subjects that you described. We ask for your forgiveness for our past Moral Majority arrogance. We have failed at times to offer the living Christ as the solution to why we believe He was sent here in the first place by God. Accept our apologies. We strive to be less abrasive and more Christ like in loving one another. Even though you don’t believe in God, we thank you for visiting the CN site and hopefully you can help others by steering them to this very helpful site. Have a great 2010.
is that snow on the christian nymphos site?! too cute – i love it!
i love it too!
Thanks for the snow!!!! Love it!
Thanks for the snow!!!! Love it!
I must say, I just discovered this site. When I googled “christians who love sex”, this came up as one of the choices. This site is a GREAT idea!!! I’m 5 years married now, and wish I had discovered this site back then. Great website for married or singled folks!
WOOOOOOOOT
like the last post, i just discovered this site and so far it makes me happy
Hello from Zuerich,
i just want to say that i like your website very much.
I will come back soon.
Yours Ivy
I am estactic that I found this site just a fews days ago Jan.7!!!…I could say I found it by coincidence because when I found it my husband and I were looking for natural personal lubricants thru google, but because I don’t believe in coincidence, I’ll say that without us knowing God led us to this site to continue the restoration process He had already begun in our marriage 14 months ago. My husband and I have been married 27 years, we have 4 children. I was 19 and he was 23.I have always loved my husband and never have had any regret of marrying him or marrying young.Throughout all of our married life , our sex life was very routined and inhibited.Sex was a silent subject growing up and when I got married I had already become a born again christian and seemed like a silent subjest within the church too. I don’t even remember any mention of the subject during maybe one session of pre-marital counseling. So the lack of not having any teaching and preparation for sex in our marriage, we were left to assume that perhaps God would not be pleased if we engaged in certain acts, like oral sex, because those acts were from the world…what a lie now I realize, I felt embarrassed to verbally communicate to husband my needs/ desires. I was so inhibited, sex became a chore.I didn’t look forward to sex that much, I felt that why bother I don’t get much out of it.So we had a quick session about every 3 weeks. During 2008 I began to feel very disconnected from my husband, I couldn’t understand why, we had even had a 25th anniversary wedding and renewed our vows the year prior, i thought it was the stress of dealing with a challenging teen son and my ill mother, I felt helpless not really knowing how to really communicate with mu hubby and it really didn’t connect that the reason why I felt disconnected was because we were not intimate. One day I told my husband that if i didn’t have sex for a year that I would be fine, he was offended by this and even wondered if I was being unfaithful to him, I just had no libido. In a heated argument my husband said I needed to do something. We went to a health food store in hopes of finding something that my help me with the hormonal changes/ mood swings….within a week and a half, I began to feel better more affectionate towards my hubby I also began reading A Celebration of Sex a book I had in my personal library at home since the early 90’s and had never read thru.God began to reveal His truth to me about how sex in marriage should be. God has totally restored our marriage bed since then, and we are so connected now I am in love with my hubby, I feel like I just married him only better than then because now we are free!!! So for the past 14 months it’s almost like we have learned alot and are enjoying what we have learned but it’s our little secret because the issue of sex within married christians is still a silent one. So that’s why I am so estactic to have found CN’s. Your site is God’s gift to us in this New Year… as we still have more learning and exploring to do… We are trying to catch up on the 26 years of not truly enjoying the gift of sex that God gives to a married couple because of the lack of knowledge and wrong mindsets.We were shackled and perishing .I hope this helps any couples out there that can relate.
Congrats Vilnel. You and your DH will be sexually born-again w/ this site. Curious as to what that natural supplement you found at the store was and how else it helped you besides your libido. Thanks.
I agree that we are becoming sexually born-again. We are reading everyday… and already practicing from what we have read…lol … The product I am using is: AM/PM PeriMenopause Formula by Enzymatic Therapy I order it from http://www.vitacost.com…. where it is cheaper than the store I first purchased it from. I want to say when I first purchased it, I was a bit skeptical about it really working for me, I didn’t really have much faith in natural supplements. This product has been like a miracle cure for me, I was experiencing many perimenopausal symptoms ,night sweats,mood swings (a sense of being out of control emotionally) and most of all no libido. One time I ran out of the pills and it took a little over a week for me get back on them as I was waiting for them to be delivered, within a few days I began to feel out of control emotionally. While at the store the simple task of buying groceries became very mentally overwhelming for me.I was a mess… I called my hubby from the store in tears. Wish I would of known about this product 11 years ago and that there is help for women with the symptoms of perimenopause ,it was then at the age of 35 that I noticed I had no libido and didn’t know why. Now I realize the importance of listening to your body and also researching and educating ourselves….It is so true that people perish for lack of knowledge….
Hi my name is Silke,
i just want to say that i love your side.
Please go on like this.
I will be back soon.
Silke
I’m Quickly falling in love with this site!!!! So many times I’ve seen women who are afraid of talking about sex (which is why I started my site a few days ago). YAY FOR A SITE dedicated to it…. I’m totally subscribing
I just wanted to say God Bless all of you for this website. It is wonderful to have someone to offer help and information. I have been married 28 years and have had problems with issues in the past. You have helped me work through a lot of these problems.. Thanks Marcy