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Christian Nymphos!
The mission of Christian Nymphos is to teach married women to walk in sexual freedom with their husbands, so they will be able to reach out and help free the women in their lives.
The Christian Nympho Name
We recognize that nymphomania is a legitimate illness for some women and we don’t mean to minimize that in any way. We started referring to ourselves as nymphos long before we started our blog. We saw ourselves as incredibly passionate wives and found wonderful freedom in embracing our sexuality. The definition of a nympho is “a woman with abnormal sexual desires.” Sometimes we do feel abnormal, and while sometimes it is with people who are not Christians it can also be when we are in groups of Christian women. Moms groups. Ladies Bible studies. A night out with our Christian girlfriends. It is not uncommon to hear women speaking negatively about sex. It is also not at all uncommon for us to hear people telling us that our sexual standards are rigid and uptight because we are so firm in our conviction that sex as God intended it is most intensely fulfilled within the marriage covenant.
While our name includes the term “nympho,” we also first and foremost refer to ourselves as Christians. The core of our identity is that we belong to God and have a connection to Him because of our faith in the saving power of the work of Jesus Christ on the cross. This allows us to submit all of our sexual desires to his authority so that our expressions of passion with our husbands are healthy and appropriate.
The word Nympho has a negative connotation for some. It doesn’t have to stay this way. Why can’t we take something “of the world” and make it into something good?
We are here to say to women everywhere:
“Be fully released to embrace all that God wants for your marriage! Ignite that intimacy with your husband, and grow in Christ together! Witness to others about Jesus, and at the same time, let them see you as a healthy, strong, happily married woman. Be a role model to other young women who need someone to look up to and talk to. Instruct them on marriage and don’t shy away from sexual questions they have. Young women need experienced women to talk to and get sound, Christian advice from. Let us honor God by showing these women what He wants for them in marriage!”
Please feel free to use the category listings, FAQ page and search box to find information on a variety of topics. If you can not find what you are looking for in those sections, then feel free to contact us through our Got Questions? page.
We welcome all married women to enter our community at the Christian Nympho blog and interact with the articles. Just know that we speak from the heart. We write honestly and in some cases, bluntly. We are not embarrassed or ashamed to talk about what the Lord has done in our lives, including our marriage beds. We hope you bookmark us and come back to see us regularly!
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I just have to thank you. I happened upon this site a week ago and it is absolutely what I wanted to find to a) spice up our love life after 20 years of marriage and b) to find new ways to surprise my husband and show him how much I love him.
I love “the generous wife” tips and am so excited to tackle the Monday Missions as well as make my way through the list of positions.
Thanks so very much for creating a place where we Christian women can come to share and learn and strengthen our marriage in an open guilt free forum.
Yes, we really appreciate Lori over at The Generous Wife, too. We’re glad that our blog is a blessing to you.
It is such a relief to finally find women like myself! I love God, & I love my husband & I adore having sex with him & him alone! So many (all) of my friends hate sex & don’t find it enjoyable in the least. They think I’m nuts because I love to please my man all the time. Thank you for helping me to feel normal!
Captivating
Thank you so much for this site! I have always been ‘shyer’ in the bedroom and I’m sure this has frustrated my hubby in our 8 years of marriage!
My family has recently been ripped apart with the knowledge of my father having an affair and being involved with porn. One of the questions I asked him was ‘how do I keep my husband from doing this?’ I know that men need to be accountable to each other and God but I’m so grateful for finding this site and the help I’ve received in becoming more free about my body and the bedroom. I know my husband does cartwheels thinking about what I’m going to suggest next or surprise him with! It’s even better than when we first got married!!!! I plan on making sure I’m doing my part in helping my husband keep his eyes on me only – and it’s more fun than I ever imagined it could be;-)
I can not even tell you how surprised my husband was when I showed him this website. I don’t think he ever thought I thought about sex that much.:)
Tell me how this glorifies God ?
All of our lives should do this !
There is more to marriage than this surely ?
there is nothing wrong with sex but it should be a personal private affair and not discussed as titlation and made into a public discussion.
Shameful
Yes, there is much more to marriage than sex and if you had taken the time to read our blog you would see that we discuss many other issues including communication, forgiveness, generosity, spiritual unity and so on. The problem is that while there is ample resource available for those topics from a Christian perspective, there is very little available about sex so when a woman has a problem in this area, where does she go? Where is she free to get her questions answered where the response won’t be like yours? “Hush about that. It’s private.” Too many women need help with understanding their God-given sexuality and knowing how to manage it in a way that honors Him for us to stay quiet!
As a newlywed I went to an older woman at church with questions, and was rebuked. I was so sorrowful and felt so much shame. Over the last 22 years I have spent so much time in study to learn how to be a good wife.
In the Song of Solomon I learned that my sexuality was given to me by God. In Titus I learned that as an older woman I am to teach the younger women to love their husbands. So many young women are never taught that meeting their husbands sexual needs is their privilege, and not their burden. And a part of loving their husbands.
I know you don’t need me to encourage you after that post that called this site shameful, but I just wanted to thank you for the information that you have provided in a safe environment. I so appreciate this site.
Diane, this glorifies God because we are pleasing our husbands. God made sex for us, and He made it fabulous. I promise if you read around this blog and find one special, new thing that you can do for your husband, you will both be rewarded. You will want to tell others. There will be less arguing in your home, and more solidarity.
Please try. It will change your life. You will be so thankful when God gives you this joy.
Thank you