I’m going to write about the various toys that are out there for our husbands to use. First I wanted to come clean and let you all know that I have had (or should I say that my husband has had) very limited exposure to most of these toys with a reason which I will share at the conclusion of this article.
Pleasure sleeves: These are long, plastic tubes that are filled with a jelly like substance for a tight fit. Sleeves that give a sucking sensation are also available.
Penis Extensions:Here is an example of a simple penis extension that can be worn and enjoyed during intercourse. The extra bumps stimulate the woman’s vagina. Some models focus on adding girth while other add length.
Realistic Vagina and Breasts: Plastic replicas of the real thing. Believe it or not the vaginas even come in ‘doggy or missionary’ positions. Sorry, I can not bring myself to post a link of this particular item.
Penis Rings: These come in either leather, metal or a stretchy plastic. They are used to enhance erections. They do come in different sizes so keep that in mind when purchasing. (Yes, I am talking about penis size as well as ring size.) Here’s an article explaining how to use them.
Vibrating Penis Rings: A penis ring with a bullet attached. I actually have experience with this type of toy. I think I may have gotten more enjoyment out of it than my husband but as we say “A happy wife is a happy husband.” So I guess we both win. This one is supposedly triple the fun.
Pumps: They help achieve an erection in record time. I’m wondering what happens once the pumping stops. Does the blood rush back down from the head, causing the erection to falter? To see what one looks like click here.
Prostate Massagers: I have heard great things about the Aneros Prostate Massager. I mentioned it in an article called “The Male G Spot”. If my husband would let me near his G-Spot, this would be what I would use.
Wireless, Vibrating Thong: A pair of thong underwear for men that has a statically placed vibrator. Just make sure the remote stays within 12 feet or it won’t work. Be warned, there is a picture of a man on the package sporting the thong. It’s a frontal view.
As you can see we have had experience with just the vibrating penis ring. Another plus to that ring, besides being able to use it together, is that the little bullet is removable. If you feel like you need more direct vibrations on your clitoris or it you wanted to vibrate his perineum with it you can do so very easily.
It is not a coincidence that we have not experimented with the pleasure sleeve or fake vaginas. The rings and massagers are something that can be enjoyed together, as a couple without having refractory repercussions. Another issue I have with the fake breasts or vaginas is that they are usually a replica of a porn star. Can the sleeve be jointly used? Sure, but I would much rather use my mouth, hand or vagina to pleasure my man. I guess my bottom line is, if your spouse has a higher drive and needs a release then it would bless him enormously to have you be there for him in a physical way rather then him having to rely on a piece of plastic. Again, this is just my opinion.
If anyone has any experience, with these toys or others, that they would like to share then please feel free to do so in the comment section.
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