Comments on: Q&A: Adult Nursing

By: KSJ

KSJ — Wed, 29 Jun 2011 01:08:14 +0000

My husband is like that, too. A complete alpha male, he loves to relax with my breast instead of a beer. He was always a breast man, but now he’s even more. He is incredible, and I love him so.

By: najwa hamdy

najwa hamdy — Mon, 27 Jun 2011 19:22:55 +0000

i love to breastfeed my husband

By: Vidya

Vidya — Mon, 21 Mar 2011 05:17:45 +0000

I’m a 25-year-old married woman with a 3-year-old child. I’ve been nursing my hubby for the last 4 years. ANR is not as uncommon as people think. In our case, beginning from our wedding night, breast stimulation (deep and prolonged sucking) became an integral part of our lovemaking. It used to be a huge turn-on for both of us. After childbirth, hubby used to stare longingly at my massive, milk-laden boobs while I nursed the infant. It was clear to us that as soon as we resumed our sexual relations, he would go back to sucking my breasts and this time, would actually drink my milk. And that’s exactly what happened! Both of us enjoyed this new aspect of our relationship so much that I weaned off our baby after two years, but continued breastfeeding my hubby. My milk supply is going quite strong and hubby needs to empty my boobs 3-4 times a day. Our sex life has never been better as nursing him gets me horny and we generally end up having intercourse atleast twice a day! We hope to continue with ANR for as long as we can. Would recommend it to all married couples…

By: Elizabeth

Elizabeth — Fri, 15 Oct 2010 02:11:27 +0000

I have a one year old, who I’ve been nursing since birth. Whenever my husband and I have sex, he enjoys sucking on my breasts. Even if I wasn’t nursing, he’d do that, but occasionally I can see him swallowing my milk. At first, I thought it was strange, but he liked it and said it tasted sweet. He thinks it’s erotic, but I really don’t think anything of it. I just like how it feels when he sucks, but he doesn’t drink my milk other than during intercourse. I’m sure he wouldn’t want any thawed out from the freezer In fact, I guess I’m so accustomed to it after a whole year, I was surprised to read this post. I figured we weren’t the only ones who do this, but I’m certain if the baby weans, I won’t keep nursing my husband, even if he wanted to. Just too difficult and inconvenient. But it’s nice for him while it lasts.

By: LivingSolomon'sSong

LivingSolomon'sSong — Thu, 14 Oct 2010 16:20:16 +0000

This has got to be one of the best and well written descriptions of what an ANR is. Thank you for clarifying what it is and what it is not. When time allows, my husband and I mutually enjoy this wonderful way of loving. “Bosoming” offers a whole other avenue for spouses to demonstrate their love for one another. It is both sexual and non-sexual all at the same time…ebbs and flows from one to the other. It can be a very relaxing time for both parties to decrease stress or an “appetizer” to the main course!

By: lavania marshall

lavania marshall — Fri, 13 Aug 2010 20:26:58 +0000

Since Iwe married 18 years ago my husband was facinated with my breast, after our first child born and I was breast feeding him my husband enjoyed watching, but when he saw how the child was relaxed to the breast he got jealous and I had to breast feed him sometimes after feeding the baby. When our second child born and he watched the beautiful moment and how my breast was dripping with milk al the time he was so excited and wanted me to stop nursing the baby and nursed him. I stopped nursing the baby at 5 1/2 weeks just to give him the breast. When he sucked the breast he would say I joyfully, I just drink some milk. What a wonderful feeling. I really wasn’t into giving him the breast for a while on a regular basis and he would always ask me to nurse him to sleep. Recently we conqure the major stresses in our life and now I sleep bear just so he can choose which breast he wants to nurse on. I am loving every moment of the bonding and we are not at each other like we use to. It is a pleasure letting him suck the breast until he falls asleep. I could do that every night without getting tired. It is something I look forward to especially when he falls asleep and snores with the breast still clinch in his mouth.

By: LW4

LW4 — Tue, 06 Jul 2010 13:47:01 +0000

Imhisheismine,
That is a terrific post! Well said and expresses the bonding so well which adult nursing can bring. The sexual aspect is clearly present, but is tangential to the loving bond this brings.

Thank you.

By: newcreationwife

newcreationwife — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 18:00:45 +0000

I am currently nursing a baby. I, personally, have little interest in doing this with my husband, but I can understand the feelings of bonding and intimacy this would produce. If nothing else, it’s a great time of snuggling My husband takes a little taste now and then, usually while we’re ml, but I think it’s out of curiosity more than anything.

By: imhisheismine

imhisheismine — Mon, 28 Jun 2010 14:54:59 +0000

DH and I started dry nursing 3 weeks ago, about 30 mins each night. No plans to bring in milk. His work schedule wouldn’t allow for it. We are in our mid 40′s, last child weaned 13 years ago. My breasts are plumping up nicely from all the stimulation but no signs of milk. We’ve always had a close relationship but this has bumped it up to a whole new level. Our sex life is sizzling, we are calmer, sleeping deeper and yearning for each other when we are apart (like those early months of dating). We hadn’t heard of ANR and didn’t begin this with some formal declaration and plan. We are just grieved by all of the divorces happening in our local Christian community and refer often to the verse about enjoying the “wife of your youth” not the new hottie. So this lead to him laying at my chest alot, which lead to suckling. Which felt amazing, both erotic and bonding at the same time. Not mother/baby like at all to me. My husband is a manly man, both physically and personality-wise. He’s a leader at work, home & church. I say this because I have read comments elsewhere about what kind of people must be into this. I am not his mama, he is not my baby. We don’t even use “Babe” as a term of endearment (not that there is anything wrong with that). It’s funny to me how SOME of the same people who enjoy OS (and swallowing stuff that wasn’t designed for nourishment) get squeamish at the thought of a man at his wife’s breast. We view our bosoming time as “marriage insurance”. It draws us closer in a way nothing else has. Even if a couple skips the suckling part, I still see value in having your hubby lay at your chest each day, feeling your heartbeat and sharing his worries & hopes.

By: redlove

redlove — Sun, 27 Jun 2010 22:16:04 +0000

I actually came across information about this some time ago and thought it was very interesting. I’m not sure how my husband would feel about it, but I was to understand from this article i read that it is much more common than people think…many couples do this especially after a baby. There are also a lot that worked to bring milk in even after not having children or having had them years before. One of the ladies in the article if I recall correctly said it was her who asked her husband to try it after their baby was born, but when the baby was doen nursing he just quit and she thought that was okay and normal. Several years later he asked her if she ever missed that time with him and she had missed it so she and he worked to bring her milk back in. So clearly this isn’t a strange thing and you are NOT alone!