Have any of you heard of the book Red Hot Manogomy? Any input on it?

For instance, she mentions our insecurities about our appearance (and who doesn’t, at least occasionally, feel that their DH would prefer it if. . .my butt was smaller, my breasts were bigger.) There are quotes from men describing what they like in a woman’s body, and they are not describing Angelina Jolie. Isn’t it interesting that we think our butts are huge, but our hubbies love that we are different from them. I took this and ran with it. I asked DH to give me feedback when I am complaining about something he sees as positive, be it physical or personality wise. For instance, I hate my ears. Once, when I wore my hair pulled back in school, an upperclassman called me Dumbo. I mentioned it recently to DH and his response was, “I love your ears.” “Why?”, I asked, thoroughly expecting that he would not have an answer. Well, he showed me just why – the backs of my ears are VERY sensitive and the way my ears are positioned makes it easy for him to do just what we both enjoy.

I also enjoyed the sketches or “real” women enjoying intercourse, and there is no doubt they were enjoying themselves. On another note, the book jacket is great, but what I really like is that I could remove the jacket to see a plain black book with the only thing identifying the title to be “S.C.W” on the spine. I was able to take the book to work because of the discreet cover.

I would recommend this book to anyone – I intend to ask DH to read certain parts of it, too. I look forward to enjoying sex as it was meant to be and teaching my children to do the same when they are married!