*If you and your husband do not participate in masturbation, then this article may not be for you. I’m writing this for those of you out there who do engage in masturbation in your marriage.
I’ve been pretty busy lately and I’ve noticed something. I’ve been doing lots of little quickies with myself. In my marriage, we engage in mutual masturbation, and my husband also knows that I help myself sometimes, especially when my drive is in overload and his isn’t. When I masturbate it doesn’t take anything away from him. Most of the time it just gets me keyed up for later (with him) so it’s all good.
I used to spend more time at it though. I’d shower or take a bath and lie down on my bed and think about fantasies involving my husband and slowly work myself into it. I can’t remember the last time I did that though! Recently it’s been more like 30 seconds of rubbing, BAM, and then I’m finished and ready to go do something else.
I think I’m in that lucky percentage of women who can orgasm easily, and maybe that’s why I tend to have “drive-by” sessions anymore. I just do it to take the edge off for that particular moment, so that I can go on about my day and get my ‘to do’ list done. Some days I don’t do it at all while other days it happens multiple times.
So… I’m wondering how many of you can relate to this? I’m interested in knowing whether you ladies tend to spend more time at this, or do you have quickies like me? Leave any responses in the comment box below!
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