When someone mentions a “dominatrix,” what does your mind conjure up?  For most people, it’s a woman donned in black leather or vinyl lingerie, black stiletto thigh high boots, and she’s carrying a whip.  Was this similar to what you were thinking?  Some people do live a life that revolves around hard-core domination and a [...]

January 15, 2009
Categories: Foreplay . . Author: cumingirl . Comments: 8 Comments

Okay, here we go.  Talking about dirty and messy sex!  You may be sitting there wondering what exactly it is that I’m hinting at here.  After all the other topics that we’ve covered on this blog, what could possibly be dirty? Do you remember that book where the husband and wife were painting a room, [...]

January 7, 2009
Categories: Foreplay . . Author: cumingirl . Comments: 17 Comments

We have heard from several of you, asking about spanking. “Is it okay that I like this?” “Is it wrong for Christians to do?” “How do you feel about spanking?” Well, that kind of depends. If spanking is being used as a form of discipline or punishment, (as sometimes seen in the “Domestic Discipline” lifestyle) [...]

August 20, 2008
Categories: Foreplay . . Author: cumingirl . Comments: 13 Comments

When is the last time you laughed during sex? For me, it was two days ago. My husband followed me into my walk-in closet and closed the door behind us. I laughed as he told me that we had not ever done the deed in my closet before. I then giggled some more as we [...]

August 13, 2008
Categories: Foreplay . . Author: cumingirl . Comments: 8 Comments

Okay, so recently on The Marriage Bed, there was a thread entitled: Strip Tease…Husband for Wife. That thread is full of good ideas, but one post in particular stood out to us. We have gotten permission from TMB poster Seekryt to copy and paste what she said onto our blog for our readers to see. [...]

June 4, 2008
Categories: Foreplay . . Author: cumingirl . Comments: 11 Comments

If you can believe it, we receive something of a sex game from my husband’s parents as a gift recently. It surprised me a bit and my nympho friends teased me that my in-laws knew me too well, but as it turns out I think it’s going to be a lot of fun! It’s called [...]

April 1, 2008
Categories: Foreplay . . Author: cinnamonsticks . Comments: 16 Comments

  I am going to make a list of words and I want you to say, to yourself or out loud, what basic human need I am describing.  Ready?  Here we go hunger, appetite, craving, spice, heat………..OK, what’s the first thing to pop into your head?  Sex?  Food?  Both of these needs can be described [...]

March 27, 2008
Categories: Foreplay . . Author: peppermintgirl . Comments: 7 Comments

The term going commando originally caused me to have visions of Arnold Schwarzenegger. I quickly learned that this term merely meant that you were not wearing any underwear. Some other terms that mean the same thing are ‘going indian’, ‘free balling’ (this term is for men seeing that we don’t own any balls to set [...]

March 13, 2008
Categories: Foreplay . . Author: peppermintgirl . Comments: 15 Comments

I’m lying in the sand. The sun is beating down upon my naked back and legs. A breeze comes by and fills my nose with the smell of suntan oil. He’s using the oil on my back and it feels oh so good. His hands are so large and strong. He moves them down to [...]

January 15, 2008
Categories: Foreplay . . Author: cumingirl . Comments: 7 Comments

I love hearing my husband tell me all the sexual things he wants to do to me.  Reading about the sexual things he wants to do to me is a very close second.  I am a very visual person and when he sets the scenarios through his writing I am at that place and time.  [...]

January 12, 2008
Categories: Foreplay . . Author: peppermintgirl . Comments: 4 Comments