1 John 1:5 – 2:2 This is the message we have heard from him and declare to you: God is light; in him there is no darkness at all. If we claim to have fellowship with him yet walk in the darkness, we lie and do not live by the truth. But if we walk in the [...]
Q&A: Erotica and Real Touch
I think I have started confusing erotica online with real touch. I find myself loving the idea of sex but not the act itself. My husband and I used to have a okay sex life, but now that I am feeling this it has gone way down. I just want to know if there is [...]
How Do I Know What’s OK?
In discerning what is and is not OK in a husband and wife’s sexual relationship when they have as much of a desire to walk rightly with God as they do to have a passionate marriage bed, I want to give you several guidelines to help you find clarity for your relationship with your spouse. [...]
Q&A: Is Erotica OK?
E R O T I C A We received the following email from one of our readers: I was wondering what you ladies thought of erotic stories. I know you addressed romance novels the other day, and I am interested to hear your thoughts on erotic stories. Are they just a form of pornography, or [...]
In the Presence of Others
Here is an email we recently received: My wife and I are newly weds and both have a large sexual appetite as well as being rather liberal which is why we love your site so much. We however don’t see the problem with having same room sex with other couples. In other words we have [...]
Shelley Lubben: A Porn Star Set Free
The story of Shelley Lubben has impacted me (and my spice sisters) in a profound way. Shelley is an ex-porn star who God saved from the industry and released as a missionary to be used of God to set women and men free from the effects of the pornography industry. She is a brilliant woman [...]
Q&A: What Do I Do About My Husband’s Porn Problem?
Awhile ago we received an email from a wife who wanted some support in her marriage. She has been growing in her sexual relationship with her husband and has been trying new things, but all the while she didn’t realize that he was involving himself with pornography. Things seemed to improve for a while, but [...]
Q&A: Instructional Sex Videos
Question: My wife and I have started to watch instructional videos by “better sex” and we are wondering if that is OK. We both were looking for something a little more “detailed” and “explicit,” but not porn. Is this wrong? Answer: I researched the Better Sex Guide DVDs and my initial impression is that it [...]
Premarital Sex: How Far is Too Far?
Although the target audience of Christian Nymphos is married Christian women, I want to take the time to speak to the unmarried women who might come across our blog to address the age old question: How far is too far? If you have decided that you want to live with sexual integrity and are honestly [...]
Lust: What To Keep In Mind
One of the many things that I love about Jesus is how he established that the motivation of our heart is just as important as what we do. Both in acts of righteousness and of sin, Jesus is clear that it is what happens in our inner man that will result in our actions being [...]
