Using games to spice up your sex life!

I don’t know about you, but there are some really fun games out there to play. I’m not talking about sex games (yet!), but regular board games like Monopoly, Pictionary, and Scrabble….or card games like Poker, Uno, Spades, Phase 10 or any other game you enjoy playing. Ever thought about spicing up a game with your spouse? Any game you can play with a friend can become a spice in your sex life with your spouse when you add the word ”STRIP” to it!

Let’s take poker for example. I am sure that strip poker has been played throughout the centuries. If you lose a hand, you have to take off an article of clothing. No fair cheating by loading up on clothes before the game starts! Put on some romantic music, candle light, and break out the playing cards. If you are really bad at poker, you could make your spouse a very happy person! But how about other games….Pictionary would be very interesting… could play this way., if your spouse doesn’t guess the word you drew, you take off an article of clothing…or maybe even DRAW something that you would like to do to your spouse and have them guess. Things could get very HOT that way!! Monopoly is a nice long game….if you have a monopoly on a property and your spouse doesn’t have the money to pay rent, maybe you could trade a *favor* like oral sex, a hand job, or something along that line to pay the rent. Scrabble….hmmm, you can only spell words related to sex or sexual acts you would like to do with your spouse….triple word score could really be a way to score big with your spouse.

There are also games that are sexual in nature. My husband and I once played a computer board game called Bliss. ( It was my first sex game, I was a bit nervous about it, but it was with my husband, so we played. This is a game that can be customized to the level of arousal you want for the game. There are several skins for you to choose from for your game board. Each spouse has a profile that they fill out at the start of the game with things you are willing to do and things you are not willing to do. You choose! If you have toys at your disposal, you tell the game what you have or what you are willing to use. You tell the game what clothing you are wearing at the beginning of the game. Bliss also allows you to choose your arousal level at the beginning of the game. My husband is always NUCLEAR! Me, I may be warm or cold and need warmed up a tad to get things going for me. Once all your personal data is loaded into the game, you are ready to play! It was fun the time we played it. My husband is ready to play it again!

As long as what happens in your marriage bed stays in your marriage bed, there is no reason to not explore other ways and means to get you ready for good, hot, passionate sex with your spouse. If playing a game gets you there, have fun playing!

aka nutmeg nympho


  1. WOO HOO! How ironic that you posted this now! Tonight my husband told me he wanted to play a sex game. We ended up playing the card game “21” and every time he won, he got to order me to do something. One time he asked me to try and fit both his balls in my mouth at the same time, and another time he made me masturbate with a toy till i orgasmed in front of him! I did win a couple of rounds too, so i got to order him around a few times. This game lasted a full HOUR and i was so impressed that he wanted to spend that time with me. It made me happy that he was being playful and loving.

    I’ve heard of BLISS but i haven’t ever played it. My husband is interested in us getting some kind of sexual game, so i may look into this. Thanks nutmegnympho!

  2. I am so glad you posted this Nutmeg!!! My husband and I are sex game virgins. We have never even played strip poker. We sometimes get stuck in a rut and this is great way to spice things up in the bedroom.

  3. My dh and I need to try another game…it’s been a long time!

  4. WEdid the free demo of Bliss. My wife seemed to somewhat enjoy it. I then bought the full version with the action editor and Solomon’s add on- which adds scriptures from the song of Solomon.

    Somewhere I have read that the creator of Bilss is a Christian.

    We have not played the full game since I bought it- waiting for the right time and mood.

    Some comments.

    A. Witht the action editor you can actulally put your own words with various actions very easily which is a nice way to personalize it.

    B.Billss has variable levels of intenstiy. At the lower levels it asks you lots of relationship building questions which are really good, but sometimes since it is designed like Monopoly it can get a little tedious at the lower levels. What I did was use the action editor to print out the lower level questions, and we just discussed. Was great for relationship building.

    C. The great part of Bills is so much abilitiy to customize, actions, clothing, intensity, music, questions, etc. With little computer savy you could just fill in the boxes and have some fun skipping anything you didn’t like, with medium computer abilities you can personalize it alot, and with high time and abilities- you could make it quite personalized and exciting.

    D. The developer has a good website for help.

  5. We have and have played Bliss.
    It is designed for monogamous couples. Your product key has you and your spouses names encoded into it. You can email the creator and have it changed once (intended more for accidental misspellings than anything else.)

    I highly recommend it if you have a computer in the bedroom.

  6. Can anyone suggest some other games that are specifically focused on increasing intimacy, but not played via the computer? We are looking for board games or card games, but it’s tough to find ones that won’t be cheesy. Thanks in advance!

  7. This page at Covenant Spice has a list of games.

    We got a sex card game a long time ago and haven’t played it a lot, but it’s fun. Pretty lighthearted and a fun spice once in a while. The name of the game is listed on that page I linked to — it’s “SEX!”

  8. Me and my husband have been married for 8 years and its nice to play these sex games to spice things up. There’s nothing like having steamy hot passionate sex with your hubby when he gets off work and you havent seen him all day…

  9. H and I just used the “Table Topics for Couples Cards” which was a fun intimacy builder that created fun conversation. We just went through a few cards but both found out things about the other we didn’t know.

    We also had fun with xxxopoly but I would play the quick version next time where we dole out all the properties before we play.

    It is not designed by Christians so know that going in. Anything that makes you feel uncomfortable can be adapted or eliminated. It is fun because you can do the sexual challenges or pay a fine and the sexual challenges are done for under a minute so it really brings out a lot of variety and exploration. We discovered that we both enjoyed me getting spanked and we had never known that before.

  10. I bought a vintage Twister game at a garage sale yesterday with “Naked Twister” in mind. I have always wanted to do this! Great times were had. 🙂

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