Middle of the Night Lovin’

One of the fondest memories my husband and I have of our honeymoon is waking up in the middle of the night to have sex and then falling back asleep. We do it rarely now, but it’s fun when we do.

The other night I woke up in the early morning and got to feeling especially amorous towards my husband. Oh, I was so close to getting something going. What stopped me? This thought: “He might be annoyed at me waking him up for sex.” Now, in all honesty, you do need to understand from your husband if he would in fact be annoyed at being woken up. Some people really do not like it. It wrecks their ability to function properly the next day. My husband confirmed for me that it is, indeed, OK for me to interrupt his sleep for some middle of the night lovin’ and yet I expect that it wouldn’t be welcomed every night, which is fine by me. After all, I’m not a machine. 🙂

These are good positions to consider using for middle of the night sex:

When you have sex during the night, it’s almost dream like because you are so sleepy, but it’s not without passion. The whole reason we are doing it is because we don’t want to wait another moment. The passion is just different. It is slow and rhythmic.

My husband says the best part about it is that there is no guilt about going to sleep right afterwards. 😀 Of course, he is mostly teasing because we are both always quick to fall asleep after we have sex.

So once you have talked to your husband about what he thinks about this, the next time you wake up at night reach over and start a little hand job. See how he responds and if it is favorable, go for it!


  1. My husband and I love this as well! In the middle of the night, it can be a very natural transition for both of us. Generally, we both end up aroused because my husband has been rubbing me in his sleep. =)

    I also have special permission to wake up my husband for sex in the middle of the night or in the morning so we have plenty of time before he leaves for work.

  2. Oh yea I thought we were the only ones who did this! This site is great. It’ good to know there are other “nymphos” out there. My girlfriends aren’t at all like this, so I always thought I was a little weird.Afternoon, before the kids come from school is also great. Actually anytime is.

  3. my husband and i enjoy this quite often, he usually wakes me up with oral stimulation and then quickly enters me, we usually use a position with him on top because it doesn’t wake me up since he doesn’t have to move me around a lot, so when he penetrates me it is a very great surprise. i love it to be awakened with my husband hovering over me thrusting himself deep inside of me, i usually climax fairly quickly but it is well worth it!!

  4. When I was still getting up in the middle of the night to feed babies, I would sometimes “arouse” my husband from sleep when I came back to bed. I may have to relive those times the next time I wake up in the middle of the night…

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