Position #3: On The Pillows


This is position that has always been a favorite of ours. It’s not extremely difficult, although the man needs to have a good sense of balance and strong arms. We’ve never known what to call it so we just call it the “On The Pillows” position.

You start by stacking up three good-sized pillows in the middle of your bed (you may need 4). Then the wife is going to lay down on her back, but put her bottom up on top of the pillows. The husband may need to help lift her up on top. Now the wife should be lying on her back with her bottom angled up on top of a stack of pillows.

The husband gets on his knees directly in front of her, in between her legs, in a kneeling position. His penis should be close to the height of her vagina. If not, then you may add or take away a pillow as needed.

Then the husband can grab hold of the wife’s ankles, and hold her legs up and apart while entering her. He will then thrust while on his knees. He can move his hands down to hold onto her calves or thighs if he would rather do that. Or, the wife can rest her legs on her husband’s chest/shoulders.

And while the husband is thrusting and keeping the wife’s legs out of the way, the wife’s hands are free to rub her own clitoris. Here is a side view picture:


For women who need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, this position is wonderful. You are able to get yourself to orgasm while your husband is inside you at the same time, making it really nice!

This position gives a WONDERFUL view to the husbands out there. He is able to look down and see himself entering his wife, and also see her rubbing herself at the same time.

Although you can see each other, your bodies are not really touching except for the privates. You aren’t close enough to kiss or hug or hold each other tight.

This is not a difficult position to do. If you haven’t tried it yet, I encourage you to do so soon, with the lights ON!



  1. I can’t wait to try this one, cumingirl. I like how you listed the pros and cons. I guess you can always embraced afterwards. 🙂

  2. I personally love the clay models. Very well done! 🙂

  3. I just found your blog and love it already – I’m a fairly newly married – just under two years – and this is one of our favorites – tho my DH stands up at the side of the bed instead of kneels – works just as well!

  4. We’ll have to try this one tonight when DH gets home! Great clay models by the way. 🙂

  5. Never tried this but i certainly know what me and DH will be doing when he gets home!! I must say it is such a joy to find a site like this when we can be open about expressing our love to our husbands in everyway that God intended and not feel ashamed.

    Really love it!

  6. This is probably our favorite position. Works well for anal too 🙂

  7. I don’t think we’ve ever done this. Looks like something we might enjoy. DH always loves the more visual positions! 🙂

  8. Just tried something like this. Except dh sat on two pillows with his feet out, and I put my legs over his. I was able to do most of the motion and dh loved that! I think he would get more pleasure in this position. I know we will be trying this real soon! lol!

  9. tried this last summer and gave it a “meh” but had another go at it a couple of weeks ago and it is now one of my favoites…I is one of the few we have discovered in which I pretty much guaranteed to orgasm with him inside me.

    I haven’t put my feet up though, I keep them on the bed so I am sort of in the position you get into when you do a “Hip lift” in exercise class. Gonna try your version this week 🙂

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