All males have a special area that can intensify their orgasm when massaged. It’s called their prostate and it is located in their rectum. A prostate massage coupled with either a hand job or oral sex can increase the intensity of a man’s orgasms. It is a very vulnerable area for most men so be sure to approach this with as much love and support as you possibly can. Many men associate pleasure in this area with homosexuality and it just is not the case. If your husband can push his boundaries in this area I think he will be pleasantly surprised.
First make sure the area is extra clean, your nails are trimmed and you have plenty of lubrication on hand. Personally, I recommend Anal Eze, coconut oil, or KY. When you first get started do not just dive in and go straight for the anus. Use your mouth or hand to get him erect first. Pay attention to his testicles and it doesn’t hurt to have your hand wander down to his perineum grazing his buttocks from time to time. Either you will have a great communicator on your hands (literally) and he will ask you to apply more pressure or you can read his moans/body language to know whether or not to apply more pressure on his anus. Have him either bend his legs up while laying on his back or get on his hands and knees to give you ample access to his anus.
Now you are ready to enter. Get your finger lubed up and gradually insert your finger into his anus. You need to get it in past the second knuckle to reach this spot. If you are squeamish about inserting your finger into his anus you could always try using a finger cot or a rubber glove. Slowly ease one knuckle at a time. Once your finger is inserted all the way you can do a press/release come hither motion towards the front of his rectum which is towards his perineum. You should be able to locate a walnut sized knot. Here is a diagram of where the prostate is located. This massage forces liquid out of the prostate through the urethra so it is very common to see some ejaculate but if you don’t see any don’t worry and do not press harder!!! Keep using your hand or mouth to stimulate his penis for the best result. Try varying amounts of pressure on his prostate but don’t go too vigorously unless he directs you to do so. Massage up one side of the gland and down the other. His ejaculate may come out with a much greater force then you are used to so you may opt to using you hand to stimulate his penis, rather then your mouth, until you know what to expect.
Prostate massages are known to have a major health benefit. This massage keeps the seminal fluid moving. If this fluid is stagnant bacteria can form causing swelling. If swelling occurs the sacs can become blocked causing urinary or sexual problems. The massage gets the fluid moving and helps circulate new blood. If your husband his dealing with prostate pain or impotence then I highly recommend trying this technique.
Remember he is going to feel extremely vulnerable. You don’t want him to have flashbacks to a rectal exam that he’s had in a doctor’s office. Go slowly and keep those lines of communication open about what feels good. He needs to be fully relaxed. This could be a wonderful bonding experience for the two of you. If he does enjoy this type of play you may want to look into getting a toy such as the aneros prostate stimulator. If he is not comfortable with penetration then try stimulating his prostate indirectly by massaging his perineum.
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Christian Nymphos 
50% of the male population over age 60 have an enlarged prostate. This massage helps the prostate go back to it’s original size. Plus it also enhances sex drive and intensifies orgasms. If a couple can trust each other enough to engage in this activity there seems to be a lot to gain.
Thanks for sharing, fxdwg.
God Bless!!
My husband finds great pleasure in this activity. If I perform oral at the same time I am massaging his prostate he gets very excited. the first time I performed this type of act on my husband I found it so hot and sexy that I had an orgasm without him even touching me. I had not idea that could happen!! He knew then that I wasn’t just doing it to please him – he had his proof. Anal beads and curved anal plugs work great as well for prostate stimulation. He not only enjoys it but it is healthy for the prostate. Just remember slow and easy and plenty of lube!!
Oh absolutely, yes. My husband has had nuclear orgasms this way…without even ejactulating. Hate for any man to miss out on this wonderful pleasure that his wife can give him.
There are many toys and vibrators that are made especially for this purpose. Also if you use a fresh water enema after evacuating this may eliminate any fears she may have of getting “dirty”. She could use a lubed latex glove if needed.
Has any of your husbands had experience with prostate massagers such as Aneros? What has their experiences been like. Thinking about it for my husband. Any input would be appreciated. Does it really work?
I have experience with the aneros mgx and the progasm. If your husband has never done anything in that area before then I’ve heard good things about the helix model. I like the progasm model but it’s quite a bit bigger. As far as results, I don’t think very many get the super O that’s always talked about with them but the feelings are definently pleasurable. I would say I use at least 2-3 times a month sometimes with my wife and sometimes on my own. Hope this helps.
Wow, I didn’t know such a thing or technique existed! My DH is 48 and is starting to have problems getting really hard and his orgasms aren’t as intense. I’d love to be able to help him with this. Question about the Aneros… if they do achieve the Super-O…. will regular sex and orgasms ever be satisfying for him again? That would be a major concern of mine. Until then, I will see if we can try a manual massage. We’ve never done any anal play, so this would be a great excuse for starting 😉
I just ordered a vibrating prostate massager from Covenant Spice for my husband. He’s still at sea but I know he can’t wait to try it out ;).
I can’t believe I am telling this but…Yes I have done this for my DH and WOW! The first time it happened we had foreplay for a while and I knew he had been going to that point and then letting off and repeating…we talked about how guys really enjoy stimulation on the prostate. I asked him where the prostate was located and he told me and he said, “why are you going to do it?” I said, “maybe” and i began giving him oral sex as he pushed the vibrator down on the base of his member by his stomach and he let me know he couldn’t hold on much longer and then I inserted my finger and hoped I was doing it right. I certainly did something right. We have done this several times and it drives him crazy every time. This was huge for me because I don’t even use my fingers to masterbate myself but it is different when they are up his butt 🙂