Position #19: Reverse 69

For this week’s POTW, I decided to choose an oral sex position that dh and I have both enjoyed together. I call it the Reverse 69. In the true oral sex position “69”, the woman is on top and the husband is on bottom.

In reverse 69, the wife lays on her back on the bed. Her husband lays on top of her, but kneels with his genitals in an area easily accessible to her mouth, while her genitals are easily accessible to his mouth. In this position, the woman can have not only easy access to his penis, but also to his testicles, his perineum, and even his prostrate! If used as foreplay, you could transition to just about any of the former 18 positions mentioned in previous weeks. Or if you are just in for a night of pleasure without vaginal or anal penetration, this is a great way to get an O for both spouses. Even maybe a simultaneous one!

Pros: This is a really great position for foreplay. Both spouses can receive ultimate pleasure simultaneously.

Cons: If the husband is very well endowed, there is the possibility of choking/gagging for the wife. Men are usually the heavier spouse, so I wouldn’t recommend laying on her, but perching yourself up on your knees.


  1. Although this is a fun position, I have found it impossible to perform oral on my husband this way. He’s pointed the opposite direction (tip of penis) is at the opposite end of where my mouth is.

  2. I know what you are saying gingercookie. I love this position as well, but many times when we do this, we focus on me giving oral attentions to his testicles and perineum and stroking his penis with my hands at the same time. It’s nice when I make him lose concentration 😉

  3. I have found if you are lying on your side and being slightly slanted you have a great position.

  4. We’ve tried this and he always starts thrusting and gagging me.

  5. “Roll over” lie side by side with your head on his upper-leg and his head on yours.
    Works great!

  6. We almost always use this position as foreplay, and it’s great! Unfortunately, I have never been able to orgasm with oral sex. It would be great if I could, as my husband can certainly come this way!! 🙂 Thanks for your site – a great blessing to helping us enjoy the great blessing of sex in marriage that God has given to us.

  7. Us too, JSH. It’s part of “The Formula” for us. I prefer this over the traditional 69. I think our height differential helps.

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