10 Ways To Embrace the Sexy Wife God Made You To Be

1. Pray for God to give you His attitude towards sex.

(This is the most important thing.

Without it, the rest won’t matter)

2. Wake up each day, look in the mirror and ask Jesus to tell you what is beautiful about you.

3. Make an effort to “think sex” throughout the day.

4. Take the initiative to plan a really romantic date.

5. Prayerfully make a list of all the things you love about your husband and give it to him.

6. Be responsive to your husband’s affection through out the day.

7. Ask the Father to give you the heart of the Shulamite Woman (for Him and for your husband) as you study the Song of Solomon.

8. Write your man a sexy note for him to find somewhere during the day; in his vehicle, in his wallet or in a bag he takes to work.

9. Initiate a hug and kiss at least once a day.

10. Wear sexy panties.


  1. I would encourage husbands who read here to take this idea and not only wish it for their wives, but consider what 10 actions you could do consistently that speak love to your wife.

  2. These 10 ways are something that I would have never thought of doing on my own. Some of them I do already but there are so many other areas that I need to work on. Thanks for the insight.

  3. This is a great article! I have done a few things on this list for my dh. He called me one day from work and asked me to put a beer in the fridge. He had had a bad day. I took this as a chance to write him a sexy note and attached it to his beer with a rubber band. He was very pleased to find the note! My dh does not always have a beer so I new he was having a bad day.

    A few weeks later I wrote him a note telling him his work pants were in the dryer love me, and this time I got the sexy note. He wrote your bra is in the fridge love me. He actually put my bra in the fridge! I laughed so hard I almost was crying. This was great!

    I think I will prayerfully write him a list of things that I love about him!

  4. in the following on (Way 1):
    1. Pray for God to give you His attitude towards sex.
    (This is the most important thing. Without it, the rest won’t matter)

    .. wouldn’t that be better as “With it, the rest won’t matter”

    🙂 /hugs

  5. #1 is literally the most important. I think it also helps to obtain gods atittude toward sex through the power of learning of how god intended that attitude to become. There’s really good resources on this site. However, does anyone know of any good couples study guides on intimacy, on VIDEO?

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