Using A Strobe Light

Looking to throw a little fun or excitement into your marriage bed? Why not try a strobe light! They are fairly inexpensive and can be purchased at most malls or even online. Here is a link for one at amazon.

Strobe lights can make for a lot of fun! You can adjust the speed of it so that it will flash slowly and sensually, leaving you mostly in the dark. This just gives you a very brief glimpse of each other every couple of seconds. It’s a nice compromise if one of you likes it dark and the other likes to see the action. Put on some sensual music and see how this enhances things.

You can also adjust it to flash very, very fast. I will tell you from experience girls, that putting it on this setting can be hot! HIGH SPEED + FAST MUSIC + RIDING ON TOP = AWESOME SEX! It gives both of you a really nice show, so if you are a visual person then watch out! 8)

I will caution you that some people get dizzy or nauseous from this activity, so you may want to be careful the first time you try it. If one of you likes it but the other doesn’t, then it’s possible to negotiate and meet in the middle. Maybe the person who doesn’t care for it could wear a blindfold (so that the strobe light didn’t affect/bother them). That way the person who enjoys the strobe light can get a good show, while the other person can relax to the sensations he/she is feeling in the darkness behind the blindfold.

We haven’t done this in such a long time, but after writing this I’m finding myself rather eager to do it again! As a sex toy I’d give the strobe light four pepper hearts, because when I’m in the right mood, it can really make things very erotic!

The image used at the beginning of this article was found at Sevenoaks Art.


  1. It is so funny you said that! At age 50 I suffer from vertigo so my first thought was, “Oh, my gosh I would be sick!” But it gave me some ideas! There are all kinds of colored ambient lighting that doesn’t flash! I suddenly want to go to Spencer’s with my teenage son! He’ll think I’ve lost my mind since I never want to go there! LOL

  2. We have rope lighting running all along the ceiling of our bedroom, just below the wallpaper border. We both are very visual so making love is great with these on. We also have a black light and a lightning disc handy for special times.

  3. luvpurepleasure,… When you say rope lighting, are you talking about those lights like what we put on Christmas trees? I’m very interested in this idea of yours. Do you have a link to show what you are talking about?

  4. Yes, actually I bought them half price after Christmas at Wal-Mart. I did a quick search to find a link for example. insert disclaimer lol, I’m not endorsing this website, just an example of available lighting. We use the clear ones. It is such a pleasing light, easy on the eyes yet well lit. Oh yeah, here’s the link to illustrate:

  5. That is a very informative link! Thanks luvpurepleasure! I’m really going to look into doing this to our bedroom!! 😛

  6. 🙂 Your welcome! And by the way, I love this site, have been lurking a couple of months just reading. This is a great place to be! Thanks!

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