When is the last time you laughed during sex? For me, it was two days ago. My husband followed me into my walk-in closet and closed the door behind us. I laughed as he told me that we had not ever done the deed in my closet before. I then giggled some more as we went about trying to find positions that would accommodate us in my cramped closet! š
I personally think that a healthy sex life should have some degree of humor in it. Iām not saying that you should laugh every time you do it. I do realize that there are times for serious emotional lovemaking. However, there is something to be said about the couple that is able to occasionally let loose, and not take themselves so seriously all the time.
I treasure those times when my husband is playful with me. And he loves it when Iām in an adventurous mood! Trying new positions is one thing that will usually get us laughing. Sometimes the positions just donāt quite work out the way we think they should, and we end up rolling with laughter!
Other things that have gotten us to laugh have been costumes and role-playing stuff. I remember once, when my husband even wrote me a short script. Every time I got to this one particular line, I started laughing so hard, and couldnāt stop. It took several ātakesā for me to say it halfway right. We have it on video, and now when we watch it, we giggle and remember how much fun that was.
I could go on and on and on here, listing tons of examples of when we have laughed in our bedroom. Those are special times between us that weāll never experience with anyone else. That is the beauty of marriage. But I would love to hear from any of you out there. What role does humor play in your marriage bed? How often do you laugh with your spouse behind closed doors?
Christian Nymphos 