“I haven’t read anything about lactation erotica. My hubby is interested in trying it. I’m not pregnant yet but he said he wanted to test the waters, so to speak, with me to find out if I was okay with it. I’m not sure what I think. My hubby is definitely a boob man so maybe it’s no surprise that he’d bring this up. I just hadn’t thought about it. I figured once a baby came that “the girls” would be on active duty for the baby and hubby would have to do without. I guess I’m wrong on this! Now I’m wondering what it would feel like to give him my milk. What if he likes it? What if he likes it a lot (he thinks he will)? We both know that the baby will come first but it is different to think about. How do I wean a baby off the breast and keep it for my husband? Any thoughts would be helpful. My gut feeling is that if we start with this that it won’t be a temporary thing and that he would want to keep it going as long as possible. Please tell me I’m not the only one to have to think about this!!!”
No, you are not the only one to think about this. Adult nursing is something that many couples think about and/or try. Once a baby comes, I think it’s perfectly normal for a man to be curious about breast milk. (Especially if he is a ‘boob man’ 😛 ) I have heard of Christian couples who practice this and say that it brings them a great deal of satisfaction. They view it as a type of nurturing between them, and say it adds to their intimacy.
While some of us may think this is odd, I certainly can’t find where the bible speaks against this. I do see where breasts are mentioned to give nutrition to infants, and I also see where breasts are mentioned as sexual organs between a husband and a wife in the Song of Solomon. I also found this scripture:
Proverbs 5:18-20 (New Living Translation)
18 Let your wife be a fountain of blessing for you.
Rejoice in the wife of your youth.
19 She is a loving deer, a graceful doe.
Let her breasts satisfy you always.
May you always be captivated by her love.
It would seem to me, that God is saying that it is okay for a husband and his wife to enjoy her breasts in all their glory. I don’t see any rules or commandments limiting breast play.
There are also some marriages that continue with the adult nursing, even after the baby has been weaned. Just know that this does take work. The breasts need to be suckled several times a day in order to keep lactating. This can be difficult to do with most couples’ schedules. Pumping may help some, but you may become tiresome of the whole thing. It takes a great deal of commitment to continue nursing after the baby has stopped.
As I write this article, I’m reminded of a friend of mine who was nursing her one year old. Her husband complained one morning that they were out of milk for his cereal. She told him to feel free to defrost some of her breast milk and use it! He started acting like he was gagging and such, and they both laughed. He did end up trying it later, out of curiosity, but found he didn’t like it.
Like many other things, this does have the potential to become a fetish, so I would caution you to just be aware of that. Other than that, this seems to be something that you, as a couple, will just need to decide on together. If any of our readers have any experience with this, maybe they will leave a comment or advice for you.
For additional information and support on ANR (Adult Nursing Relationship) check out: Woman-essence.
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