Position #55: Cupid’s Arrow

OK, you are probably thinking that I came up with the name Cupid’s Arrow just in time for Valentine’s Day and I guess you are right but it is pretty fitting.  This is a woman on top position that allows fantastic G-spot as well as clitoral stimulation but instead of you controlling all the movements, it is your husband who will be determining the depth.  I’m sure he will not mind getting some specific directions from you if needed.  Just yell out your commands to him to go faster or slower and he will be more than happy to please you.  The last time we did this position I told my husband he was lucky I didn’t drool on him.   Not the loveliest image but I’m telling you, it’s that good!!

Have your husband lay flat on his back while you straddle him like a typical cowgirl position.  Support your weight on your knees (which should be on either side of him) and lean forward so that you can rest your weight on your elbows.  Make sure you are forward enough so that your clitoris is being stimulated by rubbing on him.  Have him bend his legs slightly at the knees so that he has leverage to do his thrusting.  Your husband will have freedom to thrust as fast or as slow as he wants.  With each thrust you should also be getting stimulation on your clitoris and his “arrow” should be hitting your G-spot.  The results are mind blowing orgasms. 

Pros: ~ Multiple types of stimulation all at the same time.

           ~ Coordination galore is not needed. (Anyone can do it.)

           ~Face to face contact.


Cons: ~ I can’t think of any.  Well, I guess you could run into that drooling scenario but my husband told me that he could care less if it did happen.  Truth be told, I think it would make him feel pretty good now that I think about it.


  1. This pretty much seems like your standard girl on top, but with the husband doing the thrusting, right?

  2. Woman on top is typically a position where the wife does all the movement and has complete control of penetration depth and speed. Cupid’s Arrow requires no movement from the wife, except for what occurs naturally when being penetrated. My husband is not really an active participant when we engage in WOT and with this position he holds the reins……it’s very different. 8)

    You did just help me think of a con though….for WOT your hands are free to tease his testicles, inner thighs..ect. When you are in this position you really need your arms to hold yourself up and it is difficult to even reach those spots when you are leaning so far forward. You can always focus on him after you get yours though.

  3. Oh my – this is a LOVELY position….it’s one of my favorites (and hubby’s too) because it’s one of the few where I dont need manual stim of either of our hands in order to O.
    And one thing that we found out by mistake (I hope it’s not TMI) – if DH holds my cheecks firmly and spreads them UP and apart while he’s doing his thrusting, WOW WOW WOW is all I can say.
    I agree that this position has a lot of “pros” and no “cons” to it in my mind…

  4. Any stick figures for demonstration?

  5. i found this position by accident as well, and must admit that i actually did drool on him! i dont think he minded since it was an indication of how good it was, but he did tease me about it.
    a warning to first time users, beware of french kissing whilst in this position, since i nearly suffocated the poor guy. so much going on he forgot to breathe!
    this position gets an a+++++

  6. This can be done without penetration for clitoral stimulation. Lots of fun. I did not enjoy WOT positions with penetration before vaginal childbirth, although if I had know about leaning forward (thus stimulating my g-spot) I might have enjoyed WOT sooner.

  7. I can’t believe I missed this one before. We’ll have to try it.. soon!!

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