Monday’s Mission #64

Your mission this week is to think about what sorts of things facilitate you and your husband making sex a priority and be sure that those are in place. Is it a kid free bedroom? A clean bedroom? Sexy talk throughout the day? Dressing attractively? Getting emotionally connected throughout the day? Whatever it is that helps the two of you keep sexually energetic and focused, be sure that those things are in place.


  1. Alrighty then, we just finished cleaning out our bedroom of anything that wasn’t ours and plan to paint and and do a little makeover when we get back from vacation. We have also declared it a kid free zone (or at least from 11:00-07:00). A big announcement since we’ve had children in our bed for the last 21 years.
    That’s usually all it takes, just time alone šŸ™‚

  2. Yes, we are trying to keep kids out of the bedroom too….it doesn’t help you feel sexual when you are headed toward the bed and step on a toy or something. And a clean bedroom also helps, although I don’t think hubby cares about this quite as much as I do. I know I try to get on this site once or twice a day, which always helps to get me thinking about fun ways to be close. šŸ™‚ One of the biggest things (that unfortunately I don’t make a priority as much as I should), is that I take time to pray and do the practical things that will prepare me and the kids (and the house!) for him getting home from work. If he has had a hard day, and he comes home expecting sanctuary, and I’m crabby, or the house is total chaos or smells like dog poop…it doesn’t get the evening off to a promising start. šŸ™‚ So speaking of that, I should get my butt off the computer and do some preparing! šŸ˜‰

  3. I need to do better on keeping the room tidy and his desk neat. My desk stays decently neat, but his gets wrecked so quickly šŸ™‚
    He doesn’t care about mess so much, but it affects me šŸ™‚

  4. Keeping the room clean is difficult but makes a difference. For me the clean laundry piles up in our room due to my husband sleeping weird hours. When the whole house is neatly kept being intimate just seems to be easier and I am not thinking about things that need to be done. Having a child prrof room helps too šŸ˜‰

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