Comment by mdcccc on October 7, 2009 3:58 pm

It totally depends on how I am feeling. Sometimes it’s nice to take it slow and make it last, and sometimes I want to achieve the desired result (orgasms for both!) and be done! I know that sounds bad. I think usually during the day is when I tend to want to make it quick, just because I am usually so distracted by other things. At night after the kids are asleep, it’s quiet, and I’m more relaxed. 🙂

Comment by CherryPie on October 7, 2009 7:45 pm

My husband and I tend to just go with the flow and try to make love with whatever time we have available. Sometimes it can be as little as 5 minutes and sometimes we have very fulfilling marathons with multiple events and breaks in between (uncommon but they make all the work worth it)
However, the one that is always putting the time limit is me. It makes me feel very mean and bossy, but he’s got a lot more energy than I do and I can rarely keep up. Most of the time I orgasm before he does, but to not ice him down I usually continue to play along until he releases. There are also times when intercourse does not make me orgasm at all, but he always makes sure I get my blessings and we move to “foreplay” (although ater sez it shouldn’t really be called that.

Comment by CountryCutie on October 6, 2011 7:35 am

I Would LOVE for it to last longer!! We’ve been married just over 2 months & the longest we’ve had is 15mins (he comes when i’m just starting to enjoy it) we have sex usualluy every other day. I wonder if we did it more often if it would start to last longer?any suggestions? It’s starting to get a little frustrating.

Comment by ravieolis on October 7, 2011 1:09 am

He has to learn about foreplay and taking care of you first: study about it and talk about it to him. This site has plenty of ressources as to find out on how to have a sexual fulfillment.