“Due to age, my hubby does not find me “tight” enough. Any suggestions for lotions and/or creams that would be suitable to use to tighten up the feeling in my vagina? I have read about kegels, etc., but the old muscles are pretty much like jelly.”
Don’t underestimate the importance of doing regular Kegels. This isn’t something that you can do for a week and then stop if you don’t see any progress. If you do them correctly, regularly, and over time, you or your husband should notice a difference in a couple of months. As with any exercise it’s important to continue doing them long term or else you risk losing any benefits you’ve gained from them.
There are creams and lotions out there that claim to “tighten your vagina” in an attempt to make sex better for you or your husband. I happen to have one here called Like A Virgin that I bought from a sex toy party. I tried it in the hopes of my husband noticing… and the night I used it he couldn’t tell a difference at all. I never tried it again, although I wondered if maybe I didn’t use enough.
Vaginal tightening creams are even sold on Amazon. They actually make your vaginal walls swell, thus making it a tighter fit inside. I’ve heard positive and negative reviews on such products and believe that it really must vary with each individual woman. If you are a woman who is prone to vaginal or urinary tract infections, you may want to think twice before trying such a product.
Finally, let me point out that there are some sexual positions that make things feel tighter for the husband. You may be interested in reading more about this here: Positions To Boost Confidence.
If any of you women out there have had a personal experience with a vaginal tightening cream, please leave a comment. Or if you have a testimony dealing with Kegels that you’d like to share, please do so!
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