Weekly poll #37: Do you find that you masturbated more or less after you got married?

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  1. He does it now 😉 so its less. I do still do it occaisionsally but nto much at all.

  2. I rarely did it before being married, I was never really comfortable touching myself. Since getting married I have become very comfortable with my body. My DH loves it when I masturbate for him.

  3. Definitely much less. I rarely even enjoy it anymore. Usually when I do it now it is only for him, at his request, although every once in a while I get the urge. 🙂

  4. More. I never did before I got married.

  5. less – it is sooooo much better to ml with him!!! i only masturbate when we are separated and find it pretty boring and bland without him. he gives me feelings i could never have by myself.

  6. Ditto with HisPrincess – “I rarely did it before being married, I was never really comfortable touching myself. Since getting married I have become very comfortable with my body. My DH loves it when I masturbate for him.” I have learn sooo muc about my body from masturbation, I never knew how many ways I could enjoy making love, never knew the freedom until I found all the specific positions using toys.. Also my creativity is better when I am masturbating often otherwise I find my desire wanes. I loose interest unless I keep the fire stoked.

  7. Ditto that.

  8. I masturbate a lot more now that I am married. Before marriage I would only do it to relieve an urge every once in awhile. Now my husband can’t get enough of me pleasuring myself. Even if I am not with him I find it keeps my mind thinking sexually so I usually do it a few times a week.

  9. More, I have more needs now then I did prior to marriage

  10. More. After 22 years of marriage, we are experiencing a sexual awakening around here, really for the first time. For years I masturbated because he seemed disinterested and I wanted to feel good. Now, we are trying to keep the atmosphere spicy around here and sometimes I get very aroused while he’s away for the day. We’ve started talking about it (a first) and I admit I am impatient and may need to make choices about where I go in my head when there is not an opportunity to be together. He would prefer to be the one to satisfy me.

  11. I never did it before I got married. That was taboo and wrong ~ so I was raised to think. Now, we do it simultaneously together. Sometimes I touch myself while giving him OS as he will touch himself while giving me OS. Other times, I just put on a show for him while he touches himself. I have on a rare occassion masturbated alone after sex where I did not reach an O. I have to say that it is much more pleasurable to me as a joint venture. 🙂

  12. after really experiencing each other fully, i find that i dont have the urge to masturbate much at all. I do have the urge when he’s out of town on a business trip but otherwise i just go to him when i need a ‘fix’. this has worked in the past bc usually his drive is higher than mine so i’ve yet to experience going to him and being rejected. now, my drive is a lot higher than it was…..i’m not sure if i have the higher drive now but since we ML a lot more frequently i’m guessing eventually i will approach him and be rejected. soo……..in that event i would probably ask ‘permission’ and then go for it if granted.

    (in an effort to always be a part of each others orgasms we will usually ask if the other minds if we masturbate. i started this bc being married and having an orgasm that my DH didn’t know about seemed strange for me)


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