Okay, so by now we have all heard of the g-spot and know basically how it works. But have you ladies also heard of the “deep spot?” Apparently it responds much the same way the g-spot does, but it’s…deeper in the vagina.
In fact, the “deep spot” is all the way at the back of the vaginal wall, beside the cervix. From what I have read, there is a “front” which is in the small pocket in front of the cervix, on the upper part of the vaginal wall, and there is a “back” which is behind the cervix on the back part of the vaginal wall. These are both supposed to be sensitive areas that can be aroused, stimulated, and made to bring about orgasm.
I found mine over a decade ago, but had never heard of it. All my husband knew was that I had a spot waaaaaaaaay deep inside that could send me over the top if he was able to consistently brush it with the tip of his penis. It was tricky because if he hit my cervix, it HURT! 😯 I found that the more aroused I was the easier it was to find, because my body would “balloon” a little inside and the cervix would tilt a little. (It was made even easier to find after I had my hysterectomy a couple years later and said buh-bye to my cervix!)
You stimulate the deep spot by having your husband use the same “come here” motion that he uses on your g-spot…just deeper. He will need to insert his middle finger as far as he can get it. Your husband can also use his penis to brush back & forth, trying to hit the same spot each time. For me it has remained a mystery because it isn’t something that works for us every time.
The few websites that have information about this are…questionable at best. I was planning on linking to one for you, but when I tried to close out of it, it started giving me all kinds of pop-ups asking me not to leave the site 🙄 There is one very good video that I found though. The website is slightly questionable, but the video is very well made. All it shows is a partial woman’s body made out of foam, and a man using his finger to demonstrate how you reach and stimulate the deep spot. If you are interested in this then click here. There is no nudity, but there may be questionable links in the sidebars and crude comments in the comment box.
So have any of you ladies noticed that you have a “deep spot?” What works for you in achieving orgasm this way?
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I think my husband has stimulated it a lot during foreplay with manual sex. I don’t get a massive O out of it, but I guess you could call it a mini one. It definitely increases arousal ;).
I’ve only been married 2 years, and it just gets better and better. I was normally good for one O, but then I was done. A little while ago, DH discovered if I had O’d and he hadn’t, if I could lay beside him and he runs his hand along my back, I usually get aroused a second time, and then he can get to that deep spot for a second O.
With me, I always wonder if it is the fact that he is so deep that feels awesome, or the fact that he is so deep it causes more grinding on my clitoris … one way or another, I love it it!
We have not even successfully found the G spot! Guess we really need to get to work!
I have that spot and sometimes can’t get aroused without him literally banging it from behind. The come here motion with the finger is a mere tease…. instant turn on like a light switch! My fav!! Didn’t know there was a name for it.
BTW .. new to this website and sososo excited! I have done the porn thing with my hubby but all that is just not for either one of us (Thank God!). This site absolutely rocks!
This is MY spot. About one tap on the spot and I’m soaring. We reach it through rear entry. I’ve noticed that if I’m not aroused my cervix doesn’t move out of the way. Then I have pain.
This may be a little to graphic but I’m shorter and therefore smaller and my husband is taller and therefore larger so he always hits this spot. I love it.
Rear entry meaning doggy?
Hmm…..I always thought I had found my g-spot, but maybe not? This sounds more like what we experience. Welp…whatever you call it, I’m glad it’s there!!
oh yeah!!!! Never new a name for it, but very much enjoy it! I have to agree with RuthAnn, I think it’s easier to get to in rear entry positions.
YES, it is definitly there but like the article above it seems to be a hit or miss spot, and a few times he has been off a couple of inches and it has hurt! It can be very intense though!!
Yes doggy style.
YES! A spot or something, right? Those little pockets were designed to hold semen there close to the cervix…
OHH YES! My head hurts after these orgasms. My hubby works me up to the deep spot by manually and orally manipulating my clitoris until I explode across the bed (we have to put one of those incontinence sheets down first). By then I am very engorged all around his penis- boy does that feeling make him pound my deeper! When his head hits that deep spot, all I see are stars and colors- purple to be exact. Lately, he has me placing my legs vertically up his chest and he grabs them to hoist my buttocks up off the bed (while I’m on my back) and his head really hits it then. Hope I wasn’t too graphic but I suppose my point is that in my experience intense engorgement seems to not only put me in la-la land but seems to eliminate the cervix issue. I’ve never had an issue when fully engorged. So ladies, make these men work!
This actually answers a lot of questions for me. When my husband and I were on our honeymoon, I was very aroused all week, as it was our first experience together! Needless to say, this deep spot was very easy to access because, as you mentioned, the cervix tips because you’ve ballooned. When we returned home, he was used to penetrating deeply, but my honeymoon high was off (not that I wasn’t still aroused, just not as much), and it ended up brusing my cervix! We were both really confused at the pleasure during the honeymoon. this makes sense to me, someone who has experienced both sides of this theory.
My dh has tried to stimulate me internally and talked me thru what I would be feeling (this was a few months ago) but it didn’t produce any pleasant feelings most of the time. I have a retroverted uterus. Would this make a difference? Even with his longer fingers, he still had to reach
That would make sense as to why i always want him to push deeper. When he is deepest it feels amazing!
I have a retroverted uterus and my dh has found this spot. I can O in under 30 seconds. He says the spot feels different and by rubbing it, in the come here motion sometimes hard, sometimes soft I just go off. He has a history and has said that not all women have the spot and some have more than one…. so far we have found I have different G type spots.