Weekly poll #103: What brings you back to the CN website?

Okay, I thought about adding some funny choices, like “I wish I had hair like theirs”, but I decided to be good…Β  πŸ™‚


  1. I like the honesty, and the reality, of the discovery and the sharing …

  2. I agree with TSG. It has been an incredible blessing to be able to openly speak with other ladies about sex, sexual things, and find out what others are thinking, doing, and learn. I have learned so much from the people here and in case I have not thanked everyone – Thank You very Much!

    I guess the one thing that helps me the most is to see others of like spirit, heart, and mind enjoying a great part of begin married in whatever fashion and form they feel is right for them without condemnation, quilt, or fear of judgement. I know we are never alone with Jesus and God and his Spirit but it certainly is also nice to have some human friends who are of like mind that I am able to talk with openly. Even with our differences / uniqueness’s I have been able to find other females who enjoy many pleasurable things that I enjoy which helps me not feel solitary in my desires.

  3. I really appreciate how we can be quite candid on this site about sex ;). A lot of us (including myself) came from a background where sex was either not talked about or was not discussed objectively, so it’s definitely refreshing to know you can talk about things that trouble you or ask any questions and not be judged because you dared mention it. πŸ™‚

  4. i love that this website is so open about sex. to much lately in churches women just seem to ignore the topic or shrink way from it when it is brought up. to women are so open on this site, and even if we dont agree on certain topics we make it ok to talk about it, and to try and understand others views! my favorite part about this website is the sentence starters. its always fun to answer and read it to my husband! the work you ladies are doing is beyond amazing! thank you so much, it has helped me for my first year of marriage.

  5. I love the openness of the women here, and I really appreciate all that I have learned from the articles and the comments. I have visited other sites that focus on intimacy in Christian marriage, but this is the one I come back to again and again. Thanks spice ladies, for all you do.

  6. I really like the polls and hearing other women’s perspective about sex. The polls are great because I don’t have any outlets to talk about these things so it’s sometimes hard to know where I stand in relation to other Christian women. For example before finding this site I used to think I must have been one of the only Christian married women who masturbated sometimes! Gasp! πŸ™‚ (I still wonder a bit if my frequency is similar to others.) Have you had a poll asking about masturbation frequency?? That would be sooo great to see with a pool of Christian women as opposed to the usual samples that are surveying a huge variety of people.

  7. See this is what I am talking about – what Callie wrote. It would be so wonderful to have something ongoing discussing what everyone else is doing that is working, fun, good, things we can compare to and with, learn from, AND know that we are not the only ones and are not the odd ones… πŸ™‚

  8. I love that I feel free to be sexy and kinky after these 13 years. Something I was before marriage, then turned into “mrs. good girl”. Thanks to all the women here who are open and honest.

  9. all the above πŸ˜€

  10. knowledge and the focus on healthy marriages. Plus the desire to never stop surprising my H

  11. I like that this site helps christian marriages become stronger. It also helps women explore with their husbands without guilt and I love that the hosts are biblically sound and educated. If more churches were like this believe the divorce rate would decrease. I also enjoy the new ideas to keep a marriage spicy. This site is a blessing. Thanks and God Bless

  12. I found this website looking for answers on Christian sex topics. You see, I live in a very very small town and the church i attend is even more so. I am 25 (my DH is 26) and we are the YOUNGEST couple attending. To even say the word sex brings gasps of horror. Finding this website a few months ago has been one of the biggest blessings that God has given to our marriage bed. I thank God for these Spice Sisters and all of you other Christian women who are willing to talk openly and non-judgmentally about topics that are seen as taboo here. God Bless You Guys!!!!!

  13. Reading these makes me so very thankful to the spice sisters and the women they have brought here. You have no idea the ripples you have set into motion….not to mention the waves πŸ˜‰ teehee but seriously. You gals are a gift and I am praying for your continued success and support!

  14. It’s very nice to see that I’m not the only one that think a certain way on certain situations. Especially, hearing it come from other females. And to have my hubby come to the site and read different advice and he never know it comes from me is a PLUS!

  15. This has really been a blessing. It’s so great to read about other married Christian couples. I get the email sentance starters on my cell phone. Many times my husband and I will talk about the questions and have some fun with it. Sometimes the questions are just great things to think about.
    This morning we were talking about one of the sentance starters and it’s really to bad he had to go to work because he was ready to bend me over the bed………

  16. As soon I was aware of Christian Nymphos, I found out very fast that this site was and is priceless for women as the Spice Girls are great moderators. Here, we talk about sex in marriage from a woman’s point of view. I feel protected by having the opportunity to share my intimate feelings with sisters that have the same ideal: married life within the bounds that God has set and wants us to enjoy.
    Thank you for the help and knowledge I receive from all of you in order for me to be a better sexual woman with my husband and thus fully relishing sexual fulfillment as a couple. What a great bonding time for both of us as we explore different facets of our sexuality.

  17. How do you sign up for the emails?

  18. Anyone able to start the open discussion?

  19. I have been wondering the same thing! I tried to get a discussion going under “masturbation quickies” but no one has responded yet. Lately, my sex drive is REALLY high! Which means a lot of sex with my hubby and a lot of masturbating too (many many times throughout the day). I have had some days where I just don’t bother getting dressed as I know I’ll be taking my clothes off soon anyway. So, I end up spending the day naked and playing with myself whenever the need arises (which is often).

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