Sentence Starters

Finish the following sentence in the comment box:


I would love to try _______, but my husband says no way!



  1. massaging his prostate

  2. Hubby is game for anything.

  3. I’d love to try putting a shower curtain over the sheets and tons of coconut oil all over both of us…… but even smaller steps towards that he doesn’t seem into it.

  4. Dressing up and wearing a wig. (I’ve always had short hair) He said no way, because he doesn’t want me to look like someone else. I took it as a compliment.

  5. this of course has no chance of happening, but it was inspired by one of the other posts on here: i would LOVE to trade bodies with my husband for a night 😉 but he does not :p

  6. I honestly can’t think of anything that hubby wouldn’t be willing to try…

  7. I think the only thing would be taking the reins and planning a whole date day/night. It’s not his thing but he does like everything I do and plays along with my plans so am NOT complaining. 🙂

  8. I agree. One of the best ways I have helped my husband is to stop complaining and give him a chance to lead. It has made a difference in my marriage and my husband has really florished in his role as leader.

  9. Blindfolding. Anal.

  10. Are you talking about the two together or separate? Maybe he doesn’t want to be put in the situation of being blindfolded because it makes him vulnerable? If so, maybe you could try the two of them at different times and then work up to incorporating the two. I know from my standpoint, I am working on the anal portion. My DH wants to, but I am reluctant to try it mostly because of what others say in public. However, I am beginning to wonder if what they say they think in public and what they actually do, or are interested in/into in the bedroom are two different things.

  11. my dh is not all that excited about that idea either. sounded pretty cool to me though.

  12. Not together – just at all. He doesn’t think anal is bad, he just doesn’t want to. He won’t blindfold me because he doesn’t want to feel like he’s being domineering. I appreciate his gentleness, just not sure if I should broach the subject again or leave it. 🙂

  13. If you want to broach the subject of a blind fold again I’d recommend a easily removable one. Let him know that in a loving relationship played at domination can can be very sexy. Knowing that you are perfectly safe is part of what makes it exciting. But if he uses a blindfold that you can remove if you want to (not a scarf tied but a sleep mask) it may make him feel more comfortable. And if he is willing to take that step and sees how turned on it gets you maybe he’ll be willing to go farther.

  14. paprika and jade is was cool and continues to be cool for my hubby who enjoys it everytime. I am not ready for my butt to be explored yet, does this come up in your conversations? I guess he trusted me more than I trust him in this situation 🙂

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